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Ten terms that describe Sexual Attraction

Rainbow in a cloudy sky over houses

I’m writing this post as it’s Pride month, and I wanted to take some time to re-educate myself on the differences between Sexual Attraction and Sexual Identity. Since this is a complex topic, I’m breaking it down into a few shorter posts to make it more ‘bite-sized.’ The terms I …

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10 phrases never to say during sex. Ever.


As we enter a New Year, some of us are embarking on fresh beginnings in our relationships. Maybe you’ve met someone and you’re taking the next step, exploring each others bodies for the first time. That’s great and sure to be full of excitement, akin to opening up your Christmas …

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A reader’s experience at Swingers clubs

Boudoir Club

Recently I had a Twitter poll to canvas my readers’ thoughts on adult parties /swingers events. The response was mixed in that out of 10 voters, 2 said they would be happy to share their experience, whilst 4 said they’d never been to such an event. The remaining 4 would …

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Fitting Guide for Corsets

V&A Corset

Body-shaping corsets have been worn for centuries, from around 1700 BC. They became less popular in the lead up to the 15th Century. Following a revival, corsets became en vogue up until the Victorian era. Corsets reduce the waistline, whilst emphasising the wearer’s bottom half. Quite literally- just think of …

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Some common ties used in Shibari rope bondage.

Shibari double column tie

This post follows on from An Introduction to Japanese Rope Bondage, (otherwise known as Shibari), contributed by guest writer Stutographer. It describes some of his preferred rope bondage techniques, and safety aspects to consider. There are many different types of ties in Shibari. Some of the most important and versatile …

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