Thoughts and Perspectives

A common fantasy for many couples is to invite a third person to play with them. But for a lot of couples the idea remains just that. There are several reasons why the fantasy may go unfulfilled. There may be trouble with identifying a suitable third party, whether they are male …

Entwined One form of kink I’ve been researching lately is Shibari. The ancient Japanese art of using lengths of rope to bind a person with intricate knot-work and /or for restraining purposes. Shibari literally means ‘to tie.’ It originated from the Japanese police and Samurai in the period 1400-1700. Initially …

One careful lady owner In this materialistic, consumerist world, it seems like most things we buy these days are disposable. Or at some point, destined for a charity bag. Why should sex toys be any different? I mean, why spend hundreds or even thousands of pounds on brand new ones …

Muscle versus brawn Becoming a parent and responsible-ish adult has been a game-changer for my life in general and it has also affected my mind a lot too. I still get anxious at times, and now for more valid reasons. Will my daughter develop and learn well? Is she safe when she goes …

Mental ‘health warning’ This post is being written because I, like a lot of other people out there, have suffered from a mental health condition. It still rears its ugly head at times though I manage it as best as I can through various means. Some of these have included ‘talking therapies,’ such …

It is important for us to appreciate our own bodies; lumps, bumps, warts and all. Some brands have created body-positive marketing campaigns, for example, Dove. But in the adult industry it can be difficult sometimes to see that there is no ‘normal’ body; male or female. This article will hopefully encourage …

I purchased my domain name www.downthebunnyrabbithole.com through Bluehost on 3rd December 2016. I wanted a place I could share sex toy reviews, some erotic fiction and my own personal thoughts and perspectives. I’m interested in sexual issues ranging from health and satisfaction through to what ‘kinks’ can be enjoyed whether you’re …

I love leather, and the scent of it is like a pheromone to me. The Dominix Deluxe Open Breasted Body Harness is a piece of bondage finery that is oh so versatile in its wear-ability. I can wear it to be a Domme goddess, with some alluring lingerie underneath, and …

About me Hi lovelies, I started my true sexual discovery just over three years ago when I started buying sex toys and lingerie from online retailer Lovehoney. At this time, I was naive in my perceptions about sex and intimacy. Despite being in a loving relationship for many years, and …

One bedroom skill I’m quite proud of is giving oral sex. Whether you call it fellatio, ‘sucking off’, giving a blow job, licking the lollipop, it’s pleasurable and intimate. I enjoy performing the act because it gives me a sense of power and control. Looking up at him through lowered …