Thoughts and Perspectives

This week, I have to share with you a post from May More, about her partner’s debilitating Lyme Disease. Though it has kept him from living life to the fullest on occasions, May and her man refuse to be defeated by his chronic condition. So many of us have invisible …

I’m using a line from the new Meghan Trainor song as the title for this blog post. It’s a message to all the fuck-boy types that scroll through Twitter and select ladies that they think are down for a quick fuck, never to be spoken to again. I’m sorry, you …

Censorship for online sex content has been hitting the industry hard of late. Patreon dealt a blow to NSFW community members back in late 2017 when it banned crowdfunding to produce pornographic content. Today the controversial FOSTA bill has been signed by President Trump. The ‘Allow States and Victims to …

Welcome to my blog if it is the first time you’ve stumbled upon my site. If you’ve been here before, you’ll know that I am a fan of sex toys, of all shapes and sizes and styles. Here are my top 10 reasons why sex toys can make your life …

This week, I will mostly focus on some recent reviews from my blogging peers. Joanne’s Reviews has a great summary of the versatility of the Buch Dick silicone paddle from Fun Factory. I have not used many paddles, but the Buch Dick not only offers two different sides; one smooth …

As its Frisky Friday, I’m going to talk about medical play. What springs to your mind; Nurses uniforms maybe? An attractive white-coated ‘professional’ bending you over their examination couch before inserting lubricated fingers into your rectum. Preparing you for a thorough examination of your prostate. Perhaps you like to imagine …

Lick-orice All-sorts That may be a slightly unusual and abstract subheading, but us blogggers (I say ‘us’ as I consider myself to be one of the ‘gang’) are a mixture of personalities. We all have our own lifestyle preferences, sexual orientation and gender identity. Our views on myriad topics may …

Though not necessarily strictly an erotic photograph in its own right, I like to think that the arrival of spring heralds the possibility of outdoor mischief. I’ve not been lucky enough to partake in any ‘getting back to nature’ for some years, but I hope some day I will be …

Vaginas are all different. No two people with vaginas will have identical labia or clitorises. They will have differences in smoothness, colour,  and size. Some are asymmetric. Some are ‘neatly tucked away.’ It doesn’t matter. Like orchids, they are all beautiful in their own way. This hybrid orchid has 5 …

We go through life, from birth, developing in infancy. Becoming young adults, then older adults. We age, and we finally end our days on this planet. And what is life? Growth of a family, a collection of accolades, a career possibly, and albums full of memories. As children, we enjoy …